As a parent traveling with young children, neither you nor your children are exempt from screening or pat-down , so you are particularly vulnerable. Below is a list of facts and resources you should familiarize yourself with to make your TSA experience least uncomfortable for you and your family:
- According to the TSA website, children under the age of 12 will be subjected to a "modified" pat-down. They promise: "We specially train our Security Officers and they understand your concern for your children. They will approach your children gently and treat them with respect. If your child becomes uncomfortable or upset, security officers will consult you about the best way to relieve your child's concern." (TSA website)
- The TSA asserts that they will not ask you to do anything that will separate you from your child or children. If you child is able to walk through the metal detector his/herself, the official will prefer that they do. If you are carrying an infant in your arms, do not pass him/her to the security officer - walk through with the baby or pass on to your traveling companion if any.
- Anyone selected for a pat-down is entitled to a same-gender officer, a private area, and a witness. Ensure that you get all of these if you or your child has to be patted-down. Try to cooperate with the officer and calm your child down, but ensure that you watch carefully and ask questions if you are unclear about why/how a certain procedure was conducted. It is your right to know, and their responsibility to answer. Be courteous, but firm.
- Save yourself the hassle and follow the rules for liquids and gels. You can take baby food, breast milk or baby food with you but make sure to declare it. Here is an overview of the guidelines. With regard to breast milk, please note 2 important points:
- Mothers traveling without their babies are also permitted to travel with breast milk in quantities larger than 3.4 ounces, as long as it has been declared
- You or your children should not be asked to taste the liquids, although they may be tested for explosives.
- Since all travelers are required to remove their shoes, try to minimize the fuss on your kids' footwear while traveling. Slip-ons and socks are great!
- If you are traveling with a child or family member with special needs or disability, read your rights here.
There is a wealth of information on the TSA website and for the most part, their motivations seem the same as ours - to make sure every flight takes off and lands without incident. I have no doubt about that. However, as a mother, I am not going to assume that every TSA agent will conduct their job in a manner that is respectful to my family. Therefore, it is my responsibility to arm myself with information, and yours too.
Read:
The TSA Blog to learn about guidelines and news.
The Traveling with Kids section of the TSA website.
Safe and happy travels this holiday season!
